The Ultimate Rejection

In our lives, as we strive to make a difference we often come to a very dangerous crossroads. 

We work, sacrifice, and pour our passionate efforts into the development and improvement of our world. We give of ourselves in ways we never thought possible not even realizing how much of ourselves we have given away in the process.

And then it happens…

All of our work, all of our efforts, and all that we have developed is suddenly taken from us. It is not stolen by a thief nor are we robbed literally at gun point. In fact, it’s worse. Our friends, colleagues, and the very organization that we have worked to improve suddenly realizes the value of our work and TAKES it. They accept it, and place someone else in charge of it, and to make matters worse they fail to even recognize our efforts in making it possible in the first place.

There we stand at this crossroads…

Alone, betrayed, rejected, and bitterness begins to creep in…

Our anger overwhelms us, we can’t believe that those that we trusted, and that those we have given so much to could have turned on us.

We begin the process of defending ourselves…

We consider our defense…

We gather those to our side to defend our cause…

And then suddenly it happens…

A voice whispers to our heart:

My child, my only Son suffered as you did…

Because of you…

Our mind suddenly takes a turn at this crossroads from bitterness to guilt. We remember that what our Lord Jesus Christ went through for us:

We think about those who fail to recognize our efforts and all that we have done and then we remember that Jesus:

“He was in the world, and the world was created through Him, yet the world did not recognize Him. He came to His own, and His own people did not receive Him.” (1 John 10-11)

We think upon the rejection we have suffered, and how all of those we have sacrificed so much for have turned away from us and we remember that Jesus: 

“He was despised and rejected by men, a man of suffering who knew what sickness was. He was like someone people turned away from; He was despised, and we didn’t value Him.” (Isaiah 53:5)

We shake our fists in disgust as we reflect on those who were our “Friends” who abandoned us, betrayed us, and falsely accused us when it hits us that Jesus warned us about this when He said:

“But before all these things, they will lay their hands on you and persecute you. They will hand you over to the synagogues and prisons, and you will be brought before kings and governors because of My name. It will lead to an opportunity for you to witness. 

“Therefore make up your minds not to prepare your defense ahead of time, for I will give you such words and a wisdom that none of your adversaries will be able to resist or contradict.”

“You will even be betrayed by parents, brothers, relatives, and friends. They will kill some of you. You will be hated by everyone because of My name, but not a hair of your head will be lost. By your endurance gain your lives.” (Luke 21:12-15).

We must reflect upon what our Lord went through on our behalf, and more importantly, how He behaved through it all:

“When they arrived at the place called The Skull, they crucified Him there, along with the criminals, one on the right and one on the left. Then Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, because they do not know what they are doing.” And they divided His clothes and cast lots. (Luke 23:33-34).

Jesus didn’t forgive others when it was convenient. He forgave those as they were killing Him. In the midst of great pain and suffering He loved and forgave.

When our hearts are heavy with the burdens of betrayal. 

When we feel utterly alone…

We must remember that Jesus the King of Kings, Son of the Living God, was rejected by that which He created.

All of the love of the Father that was poured into mankind and mankind turned away giving the credit, the honor, and the glory to false idols. And not to the One who created it all…

Does this sound familiar to our story that we began with?

We can overcome and we can endure but we must know that these things are coming. 

Those that love God will face rejection, opposition, and betrayal from those closet to them. We will be tested in the furnace of adversity but if we hold true to our faith. We will see that God is what sustains us. He is what fulfills us. And He “will never leave us nor forsake us” (Hebrews 13:5).

God Bless,

Andy Starnes

Bringing Back Brotherhood Ministries 

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